Queer Fat Femme Guide to the Net

Printing this out!! So great! So succinct. 

communityandresistance:

The Importance of Checking In

Checking in with yourself is an act of self-affirmation, a way of reminding yourself that your inner being matters. It is also a way of giving yourself credit for all your efforts. Some good times to check in with yourself include: when you are being triggered, right after talking about what you’ve experienced, right after a therapy session, etc. 

Suggestions for How to Check In

1. Think about the following questions/statement, and if you journal, consider writing your answers.

• What are you thinking right now?
• How are you feeling?  Empowered, drains, frightened, ashamed, hopeful, angry, or some other feeling? Recognize these feelings as valid and true.
• What physical discomforts are you experiencing? 
• Do you need to contact a trusted friend or seek medical care?
• If you are feeling very frightened, afraid or distressed what can you do right now to take care of yourself emotionally, physically, or mentally?
• Acknowledge the work you have done thus far in healing.
• Share your happiness or joy with someone close to you.

This exercise adapted from here.

Followers, what are some ways you check in with yourself? Do you have any suggestions for others? What works for you and what doesn’t? What has been your experience with checking in? Is it beneficial for you? Or try these tips and lets us know how they worked! Submit your story or ask questions!