Nurse June (Mizz June) gives @jacquelinemary a shot. She says “Say ahhhh.” this might win the internet. #queer #femme
I’m working the door at Prime tonight! Come on down and visit me! Support a party that celebrates queer folks over 30 (but welcomes all folks over 21).
Wing Ma’am the app comes out this month! I’m super excited for it—it’s like the queer grindr, plus it’ll have events and other kinds of listings. Sign up at the website for their email list, like ‘em on FB and get in the know. The more awesome folks who are on the app the more everyone gets laid and gets connected.
NEW BLOG POST FEMME SEX WEEK: Additions to the Queer Lexicography
My friend Jesse is a queer, body positive trainer and worker outer and high energy human who is not into smart phones or technology but I think he has a lot of great things to say in real life so hopefully his blog will be awesome, too. Follow him if it sounds interesting!
Oh hi! I was just brainstorming for my new blog! While I am quite a caveboy, I’m going to attempt to do this, even if it lacks bells and whistles and witty titles, because I think I have some important things to say. I also have some not very important things to say. Also, my mom recently wrote me a message saying “Jesse. Get your tushy off of facebook” so I figured, I could show more of my tushy here, if I feel like it, and perhaps, less of it on facebook (?).
Take a look at my chalkboard and read some words backwards. This was the best of some attempts at photos, taken by my laptop (because I don’t have a camera).
In this blog I will discuss topics such as: “fat positivity and ‘get your bullshit concepts of health off of other people’s bodies” and “trans at the gym” and “race, ethnicity, body, gender and power & privilege”, (woops, I just realize I spelled that incorrectly on the chalkboard…I’m a bad speller!) and “trans in the locker room” and “body modification vs. concepts of health” and “trans in the bathroom” and “personal training” and “my experience as a special education gym teacher” and “NoBODY is better than anyBODY else” and “this thing came up in the queer youth fitness class that I teach” and “addiction and lifting” and “workout tips” and “watch me lift this heavy thing” and “look at my cute butt” and “look at me in this singlet”, and maybe even if it seems appropriate and if I know that no one I don’t want to see will read it: “jesse’s got a crush”.
Also, in terms of a title, I didn’t over think it, but I thought it sounded good. I am queer, through and through. I don’t really identify as a jock. I just like to lift heavy things, modify my body in certain ways, and see working out as a way of taking care of my mental and emotional health. All of that feels really good to me. “Strapped” conjures up images of the “jockstrap” and reminds one of just how queer and kinky (and playful!) working out can be. It’s also meant to express how I feel as a queer person in my body and in this world. There is a lot that people assume. There are a lot of ways I feel tied down by these assumptions. I plan to bust those assumptions open and explore deeper, more radical notions of what I think about THE body and my body. Enjoy and feel free to send comments or questions to firstname.lastname@example.org (or here if that’s a thing that people do). Please also always come at me with respect and kindness and I will do the same for you. I won’t tolerate or respond to aggression or meanness. Thank you!
How to effectively use a wing man/femme /person. New post on my blog at Queerfatfemme.Com pictured here is my available friend, Leo. #queer #dating
Have you ever had a person offer to be your Wing Man but don’t know how to make good use of that? Also includes a random assortment of people who are available for dates in the US and Canada if you want to do some casual cruising on my blog!
People have been saying for years that there should be a queer grindr (the app that all the gay boys use to cruise using their phone’s GPS—where one of my Besties met his boyfriend) and there finally will be! Wing Ma’am is coming soon, designed for LGBT women.
I love the idea of being able to tell at a moment’s notice who in the bar you’re at is single and cruising… Also a great way to begin text based flirtation and get it in person if it’s mutual!
Wing Ma’am’s also going to have event listings and you know I love that as a party promoter.
Check it out here and sign up for the newsletter. The app is going to be free! http://www.wingmaam.com/
Also the folks who are working on the app are really awesome and open to feedback if you have ideas! http://www.wingmaam.com/contact
Every Friday queer freelancers/students/people who don’t have to be somewhere on Fridays get together to work at Beast in Brooklyn! We have the back room of the restaurant, strong wifi, abundant A/C and good times while getting work done. It’s great networking and we’d love for you to join us. RSVP yes to the facebook event, we update it once a week to reflect the new date.
NSFW Lesbian nudes. So tender!!!